I am not talking about new relationships in that way. My wife is set on the big D and in NJ that's all that matters. I will not be taking advcise from anyone for noone knows what is going on between my ears (not even me). I would do anything to save my marriage but it just seems like there is no hope. She is so angry she can not even bare the site of me.
Unfortunitly we are heading toward the big D but that is not in my control. I have made no decision to move on but when your W goes out everyother night it's hard to keep the effort up.
I am not ready to begin a new relationship but she already has many months ago.
Thanks for your thoughts and no I have not given up yet.