we are probably our worst ememies thinking about how sex was with our S and the OP. If we could just realize that the LBS is the one that was chosen over the OP. That should tell them something!
Sandi,
I don't want to really discuss this but the above statement is true.. IN my case the last person My W has sex with was the OM a year ago.... If I died today that would be it...
I know let go... and I have ... maybe more than I should soon..
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know