Karen and Yoyo, H has also said the same thing, that I didn't appreciate him, I treated him like dirt, like hired help. And now, from time to time, he will make off comments about how I will see what its like to feel pushed aside. Lovely.
Karen, do NOT give up. Your H may be a fool and never come back, but you will be left behind. BUT...you will be more positive, more confident, a better mother, a better life-liver, because of the hurt he caused you. You will 'win'. But, I totally understand what you mean. It angers me that H won't even turn back around, even to look, to ponder, the possibility of reconciling.
