Sounds like a pretty good response to me. I have learned through trial and error that anything you can do to appear confident and in control is a positive. She may be testing you to see if you are going to give in to any old thing she wants. If you can stand up for yourself and your interests and all the while continue to be positive and up-beat then that is a positive.

You strike me as being very realistic and goal oriented about all of this. You’ve got as good a shot as any.

Me: 35
WAW: 28
Bomb: 1/13/08
S: 1/14/08
D filed: 2/24/08
D final on 7/07/08

Do your damndest in an ostentatious manner all the time. -George S. Patton



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