Positive Sign: Today I have had a fair amount of communication (relatively speaking) with W (Email and TEXTMSG).

She initiated talk about paying off CC dept. Wants to sell my stock to pay off.

Here is my initial response:
Quote:
I understand that you want to pay the dept off quickly. Im hoping for $XX or $XX. Maybe we look at some other options if you want to pay them off this soon.


I think this was a good response. I show empathy, but gave her my point. It also is getting some dialog between us.

This is not the time to pay off this dept! This will be part of negotiation if we go down her path.




"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712