Well, just be careful about interpreting documents even with the help of a friend. There's nothing like a lawyer who's working for you, even if you don't get on on retainer but pay for an hour or two of guidance.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09