I didn't say "deep" fascination. But the question is really why Althea is wanting something that the person isn't offering in such a new R. My guess is that it is because she wants that R to heal her in some way of which she is not aware. Worth a thought, anyway.
With regard to Mitch and the lightbulbs, I disagree. And, I'd bet you a decent chunk of change that you'll change your viewpoint on this within a few years.
Most recently D/getting D folks (including me) continue to treat the X as a spouse past the time it is appropriate. It doesn't turn out to be good for anyone.
