Jen, your trip may actually come at a great time - at least it delays the process some. How long are you going for? Try to have little contact with H during that time. He may realize how much he misses you and D. Get yourself a Lawyer to protect yourself especially with the language barrier and when it comes to legal terminology it is always much more difficult to understand.
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