I swore to myself that I wouldn't post to you anymore because it seems as though you have already made the decision to move on.
You started posting here 2 1/2 months ago and already you have decided you are done and are moving on.
You are already discusing new relationships.
This really confuses me because you are supposedly so in love with your wife and want your Marriage restored but you have no idea how to actually stand.
There are no greener pastures right now.
There is now way you will be ready to begin a new relationship with anyone until you have actually healed fro this one and after such a long Marriage it is going to take you years.
BT so are you really done now?
Going forwards with the Divorce?
P.S. Please don't take Marital advice from your friend Fish, he just flushed his down the toilet and I would hate to see you following in his footsteps.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.