[quote=karen43] Unfortunately, couples don't realize that they are not making the marriage a main priority. We all get caught up in raising our children and jobs. Once we get "slapped" in the face we LBS try to work on our marriages. They think that they have been "wronged" so badly, that it is too late to save the marriage, the fog is too thick! They don't stop to think that marriage is a two way street, and that they contributed to the miscommunications.
You are right about that Yoyo! I was focused on my kids & H on his job (and eventually one of his coworkers!) in our case! But so do H's ever realize or do you think my H will eventually realize that it's not too late to save our marriage or the thick fog will clear enough for him to realize that I am a different, no longer depressed but happy person and he will be losing out if he divorces me (well I think that anyway) Karen
Karen
