He doesn't feel like he has anything to give you yet
...I said this before I even saw you said it..so it must be true.
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You said it yourself, you were happier before he came to live there because you were out more and having more fun and working out and feeling good.
I think this is also because I was detached. That is SOO much harder with him here. I wasn't worrying about him. Now I just worry all the time.
Let me just tell you how crazy I am...Monday night we had some really bad storms. Our power went out for a while. My first thought when I got up for work was "I need to call H to make sure he gets up for work. His clock probably went off and his alarm won't go off." I resisted the urge. I mean well...but I need to let him grow up. I remember my counselor told me that H probably sees my "worrying" as controlling. I have to remember that. I am not his mother.
