Alimari
Is there a way to get this board up again that would please everyone again?

I don't think the old group will come back. I don't think they would be welcome, and that is the main problem.

I know they have a better cyber life on another forum.

This forum got lots of people through some tough situations, as is the new forum doing for many of the regulars that used to post here along with new blood.

I am also saddened and confused by the way this board seems to be so "proper" now and doesnt seem to have ~LIFE.

Well, a few moderators said some of our honest posts were not within the DB guidelines, and they were blocked from posting. Now we can (the non-banned members) can post what is considered within DB standards. I wish I could direct you to a more helpful place in your life. If I did, the post would be deleted or I might be banned.

The book, Divorce Remedy " is still a good book. "Keep Love Alive" are still good in my opinion. What isn't helpful are the *DELETED ADVERTISING* signs references you strewn about on this site. Most of those were links to helpfull sites, and had nothing to do with commercial advertising or money generating links.

Alimari, sorry but I have to say, work with what you have, and not what should be.

This forum saved me many times before the moderators cracked down. Now it is so generic and I no longer have much to say or don't think I can really help anyone, because I tend to tell people the good and bad things I tried and used to DB.

Michelle W Davis has her reasons for cracking down. She pays the bills and we have to follow her guidelines, no matter how much less useful they are to individual posters.

S/he who pays the bills rules.

BTW, Take SG's advice. It works.

Lou