He told me last night that he needs a for sure answer whether or not I am willing to work on things with him. Very fair that he would ask that...but I still don't know. The past couple weeks, he has been downright cruel to me. He isn't the man I married, and hasn't been in a long time. Do I want him back? Hell NO! I want the man I married back! Is he in there? Maybe...but how long do I spend looking for him?
And the sex part...that's the ONE thing we've always done well at. It's the ONE time when we don't argue, and try to please the other person. We are active and healthy in this area. This area ONLY... That's why I keep it up.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."