thanks just me (and others to obv)

No, Ithink she definitely feels relief, but part of me now thinks. "why did i have that conversation and accept it was over ? If i'd just changed myself before I did that, I might of had a better chance". Thing is, that wasn't what we agreed. We agreed to play happy families for our boys so the sudden rush to get a lawyer etc just shocked me a bit.

I am totally being for me and my boys at the moment. Joking about with the wife and going to play it cool. Can only deal with me as others say. Hoping she speaks to her sensible friend soon as currently not really and just speaking to loads of women who are ante men !!!