Our sitch's are so similar, neecy, except I am very fortunate not to have children and I can't confirm a PA. DEFINITELY an EA. All three of us work together. (Hmmm, I just realized the way our offices are arranged, in a bloody TRIANGLE with me at the tip and their offices parrallel - all within about 15 feet of each other so I get to hear the giggling and flirtations all friggin day.) Anyway, the point of my post was to support whatever decision you feel you need to make right now. I know you don't want to upset the apple cart when things are going fairly well. If my H and I do end up working things out, I will be telling him in no uncertain terms that one thing I will not compromise on is being tied for first place or coming second to any of his/our female friends.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence