Sounds like you have a wonderful boss, they are hard to come by my friend. I thank goodness you have that job to hold on to, finacially and spiritually for yourself. It will keep you going (besides D4 of course).. you have a good support system their with that job, and that is wonderful.
Your H will have to face the daycare things sooner than later.. he's really making himself look like a chump.
You are doing great sue, im so glad.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.