Originally Posted By: karen43
Other Hs break up with their OW, but I guess his relationship is still going strong after 4 or 5 months or whatever. I do think with all the changes I've made that if he broke up with OW that he would at least consider the marriage for a second or two anyway!!! \:\(


Karen,

Don't give up just yet. The R between your H and OW is bound to implode. How could it possibly work under these types of circumstances? Just keep doing what you've been doing. Focus on yourself and your kids.

The Good Divorce book and the thought of the OW giving it to your H makes me want to BARF.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence