Trying to be patient

[karen43]

Karen,

You make the changes for you ... not for H.
The WAS is too to notice anyway.


Do it for yourself.

Thanks GF and Nocode! :)I have been recently trying to make the changes for me (and for my kids too of course!). I do think I started with the intention mostly of trying to save the marriage, but now am trying to do it just for myself. H has even noticed the changes & commented on them several times but said they were "too late". H just doesn't care in my case!!! And GF, I do try to be patient (why I called my thread that) that is my worst quality I think; I am impatient!!! I should look to you as an example for having patience I know!!! Karen