Your H sure shows how he doesn't comprehend what he is doing to the kids! Unfortunately, he will not comrehend it even when you point it out to him.
Every once in awhile it is probably good for him to hear, but don't let him bait you into those conversations that let him tell you that you are "controlling". I think it lets them reinforce their distorted beliefs for themselves.
Stick with your plan peace! You'll know when and if it is time for NC. It is something that you have to be ready for in order to do it.
(((hugs)))
Nature Girl M 40 H 40 M 15, T 19 D11 S9 bomb 3/07 (MOW)
