we both go to C. the W trys has glimmers of her old self every time we hang out. this last burst just realy caught me off guard. she wasent makeing it up she realy was upset and her eyes were red. Cat and otheres i realy was just feeling a little badgered so i told her " stop i understand it will never get this dirty again." i said it with kindness but it hurt her. im trying to listen to what she realy is saying, and it seems she feels i dont let her finish her sentences or thoughts. ok i can do that. but when her thoughts take a degrading tone i guess i have to tell her to stop so it sbecomes a circle. next time we go to C which is next week i will tell her that " W i lover it when you call me on things because we are trying to become stronger together. I will also stop stuffing and call you on things as well though. W sometimes you like to repeat yourself now when your expalinging a fault of mine ( funny this is a trait she complained about me) when i agknowledge that i hear you its not me cutting you off. its me saying i hear you. i know in the past you have HAD to repety yourself but this is a new me. give me a chanch to prove i heard you."
