too funny...yeah it's about 12"deep. clover in full bloom...sure the guinea pig is just loving the harvest. rofl.
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H emailed me today to ask me to xfer money to his account for pool cleaning if I can afford it. I can afford ... I don't plan on paying ... it is inappropriate given our sitch,...
Funny this money stuff. Just adds complications. My W told me few days ago that she goes more in debt every month. But hasn't sent info for me and hasn't for months...this pool thing just is weird to me. I went back and reread where you first described your feelings about the pool. I just don't get it. He wants you to pay for something you don't use without permission, yet asks, and I guess expects, you to pay for it. It is kind of like paying 1/2 of "his" house bills in a way. Like why would I pay 1/2 of my wife phone bill? Or, if you had a pool would he be paying 1/2? I doubt it.
Now, that said, I don't really know how I would handle it. Obviously my way with WAW isn't working...lol. Perhaps since he emailed you then a response in that medium would be good. Short and brief.
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if I can afford it. I can afford it and I can't use that as an excuse...girlfriends for the weekend.
Hate to tell you but whether you can afford it or not is irrelevant. I know you are looking for an escape where you don't have to say the way you feel and no money would be easy. However, I wouldn't want my W to think I had no money/strugglin' whatever.
Now with your doubts of bugs and such sounds like you might pay 1/2 anyhow...if you do, would you use the pool without needing permission? perhaps on your nursing days?
thanks again...
gl2u...going to spend some more time thinking about it. I'll try to post b4 I leave for fri-sat fishing trip...
