Mink, not bad. Give yourself a break, though, and don't get into any R talks for a bit, even if she brings them up. Just have a few times where you hang and enjoy. You can tell her, "MM Wife, let's just leave this topic for a bit. I think we both know where the other one is right now and we're doing a really good respecting that. Let's just lay off tonight and enjoy ourselves."

Me thinks it's good though. The door's open and if you both play your cards right and are good and honest to yourselves, you'll be walking through that door together. Time is the key.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.