Originally Posted By: slowly
Just wondering if you have done anything to show that the 'insensitive' part of you has changed, and indeed, changed for good? It would be counter productive to reference these incidents, but maybe if there is a way to show W that you would approach the situation differently?

Most of my 180's are not self centered. I have been toping of gas on both cars washing when I can etc... (maybe persuing?)

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Do you know why this is an issue (BAR) for W?

Maybe W believes her family would disapprove?? just a guess.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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