Originally Posted By: Just_Me
...but you should still consider your wife's feelings. Meaning, I hope you aren't leaving her all the activity that seems to come before and after dinnertime while you are at the gym. If so, it will seem very selfish. You don't want her resenting you because you took off right before or after dinner.....

This is what got me in this sitch in the first place. (I gave up helping (overtime) with the chores. Everything I tried was "not good enough" and "not appreciated") She is very controlling. 180's -Helping with chores (example: W has not unloaded dishwash since the bomb) I go to gym after W and Kids go to bed at 8.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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