Doing ok i guess, just trying to figure out the right thing to do to make everyone happy.
Mo2C
Don't worry so much about everyone else. If you do that, you'll find yourself one or two years down the road still unhappy with yourself and resentful for that.
So here I am struggling with what the right answer is... I'm trying to think of what it is that would bring me happiness.
I could give myself carte blanche to go out and do whatever / whenever. Spend money with no regard to budget. Party like a rock star. Travel far and wide to see new places and meet new people.
I would be fun for a while, but I think this would get old and leave me feeling a little empty after a while.
When I think of what makes me happy, personally, I think it has a lot to do with giving others happiness. I like to see the kids enjoying themselves. I want to give them oppurtunity to succeed in life and watch them develop into happy adults. I work not because I love my job (I know, not the right reason), but because I feel good about being able to provide for my family. It makes me happy to bring a smile to my W's face and to see her happy. The old saying that it is better to give than to receive.
I dunno. Is there any 'right' answer? Just food for thought.
