A R talk initiated by YOU is usually a no-no but a R talk by her is out of your control. To not go along with the talk would have been slightly obnoxious I think. Even though you did have an R talk it seems there was no pressure by you and it appears she really respects your honesty.
What's your next step?
Also when do you expect to hear back from the band audition?
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
