One of his major complaints for a long time is that whenever there is conflict I turn "robotic". I look at the details and reality of a situation and try to create a positive outcome. He says i turn unemotional, but i have a hard time understanding how he can say that. I cry, I feel, i emote all over the place. But i also try to deal with it. I'm trying to process this.
How do I relate issues with the kids and finances with him, how do I stay detached, and yet not appear cold and calculating? How do i express emotions to him without him throwing up walls and feeling attacked?
Me BS 30 Him WH 32 Kids 9, 4 and 2 Together 12 years DDAY#1 9/30/05 False reconciliation DDAY #2 3/13/08 blindsided