Affair is over and WW is responding

[Hope4us]

Yep Pup. She's 47 also.

Why wayward? I've thought about it alot as I'm sure everyone does in the sitch.

- Pre-mentapausal (sp?).
- Youngest son almost independent.
- Major Stress in life - Relocated away from our home town 5 months before A started. Home town = real community, know everyone, new home = big city where we know no one = Freedom (to her).
- Hates new job.
- Me traveling for work alot prior 2 years.
- My new job stressful - long hours.
- Predator OM.

Now do all those things justify the affair? NO, not in the least, but it all adds up to a perfect storm to me (or to use DB terms, all the holes in the cheese lined up).