cat i will be honest, im afraid of lossing my wife so badley that i have a real hard time standing up to her. i have read all of the DB princibles and know that acting up beat and positive is a must, and im afraid that if i dont let her vent on me she will feel couped up inside. the C stated my wife is a stuffer and has held a lot in for a long time. so now i think she is letting it ALL out when ever she feels something.