Ready2Change (II) - Detached

[Ready2Change]

Thank you all for the kind words and support! I'll address the questions in another reply.

Interesting: W was leaving and saying goodby to kids (They all in our bed). I said "Have a good day mommy!" in a very upbeat tone. She said "Ya". She then asked if I planned on being home tonight. I said yes. She then said she had "dinner plans tonight".(I change/W changes...). I said "no problem".

Typical morning after she left. Enjoyed kids. Pancakes.. ect.

I initialed an email conversation to find out when she wanted me home (I offered to meet kids at bus stop) and let her know I was taking kids out for dinner tonight. My email acting up so I then confirmed time with a text message.

Positive: A little dialog with W.
Positive: W thanked me.

I plan on getting home a little earlier than when she wants to leave. If she dressed nice I am going to drop a compliment (180 I have only did this once since bomb, and don't remember the last time I did before the bomb).

I plan on stating this to her tonight before she leaves:

"W, do you have a minute?" (Get her direct attention and most likly direct eye contact).
"Have a wounderful time tonight, and don't worry about rushing home. I have everything covered."
"By the way, that outfit looks really nice on you"