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[ACJ]

Thank you Jack for your explanation.

I smiled as I read it b/c I think my H and I would both put different interpretations on our sitch. He would definately say he was a WAH. Based on your definition I would say he was MLC WAH b/c although it has slowed down he has checked in a lot over the last two years to spew. Now it's generally just about a D. I'm sure in his own mind he wants a D but he is so sporadic about when and how he conveys this to me that I'm sure that OW is pushing most of the buttons. He has never told me that he has made a mistake or that he doesn't know what he wants so he is quite different to some H/Ws here. However he is still very much in the mode of hoping that I will be the one to file so that he doesn't have to do the hard work.

You have given me something to think about at least. I have seen no returns for my efforts of DBing which is why I am so frustated but maybe I'm just going to be one of those cases for whom there will never be an amicable resolution.

I wish you and your W continued happiness.