Bully, bully, bully!!!! I hope it comes back to bite him in the a$$!!! (sorry, did I say that with my outside voice?)
You deserve to be treated with the utmost of respect. Incredibly you attempt to treat your H with dignity and respect even though his actions and words are FAR from being any where near deserving of it.
You are a wonderful human being.. a fantastic mother... and you are definitely not being greedy or selfish.. I think what you've proposed is MORE THAN fair... I'm just so sorry to hear that he is being so closed minded and cruel.
