he can't seem to understand that good people don't sleep with other people's husbands/wives and good people don't cheat.
That's always the catch isn't it - the OP is always so freakin' WONDERFUL and we hear how much better they are than us. But wonderful people don't have affairs or enable affairs. Only people with low self-esteem and issues are desperate enough to seek attention from a married person and try and break up a marriage.
I am glad your H is on board with the paternity test and is facing the reality of the situation. It must be VERY difficult for both of you - you have both had your ideals and dreams shattered into a million pieces.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2