jmw,

You were talking about a real yard? LMAO.
I thought it was a metaphore. Either way it applied to the post. Funny though.

I thought that you handled the court issue well also. Sometimes it is difficult if not impossible to avoid some issues.

My H emailed me today to ask me to xfer money to his account for pool cleaning if I can afford it. I can afford it and I can't use that as an excuse since I am going out of town with some girlfriends for the weekend. I don't plan on paying for it under the grounds that it is inappropriate given our sitch, but my only hesitation is that it has become a health issue. We had the yard cleaned and all the debris got into the pool. Now it looks like a swamp with hundreds of mosquitoes. I am perhaps a little paranoid of west nile and anyone getting bit especially my pup since she is outside quite a bit. My other hesitation is that he seems to think that we will own the house together as partners long after he claims our D will be final.

Last edited by HOPEFULinCALI; 04/03/08 04:26 PM.

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Role Reversal(original)
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T: 9 yrs
M: 8 yrs
WAW: Sep 06-Jul 07
LBS: Sep 07-pres.