I said, I'm overweight, overworked, depressed, my boobs still leaked from nursing a year & 1/2 earlier, H & I had different schedules & I never got to see him.....etc. I told him I'm 38, but I feel like I'm 80. ... I told him that yes, I thought I did, but things had been tough and I was afraid he'd leave me. He said, Sue, I have NEVER heard of a husband that will leave his wife for the reasons you're telling me. I have NEVER heard of a husband that won't support his wife through what you're going through. SueS
I guess b/c your doctor hasn't heard of my husband! I was going through exactly the same things last year, was severely depressed, overweight, no energy, and I didn't realize that I was depressed and my H was spending 70-80 hours at work and hobbies. He finally agrees I was depressed which I've conquered with therapy & Prozac--but still is wanting a divorce & having an affair with OW!!! I think you are right that I should stop blaming myself like I have been!!!
