Yep Pup, thought about that before. I guess I'd have to see HOW it happened. If she came to me and said I f'd up and called him and x is the reason and I'm sorry kind of thing, I think I would be ok with that if she worked with me on whatever triggered her need to call him and we worked towards it not happening again.
If it happened again after that? Don't know. Guess I should think about that, but right now, I don't think I'm going to have to worry about that for a while as I'm fairly sure she's going to say, ok, lets separate.
Maybe her tone will change after I tell the kids this weekend, but who knows?
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.