Just saw H today. He is reading a book "The Good Divorce". I looked it up at Amazon and apparently it says crap like divorce can be a good thing, it's fine for the kids, etc. H is not the type to ever go in a bookstore and pick out a book to read, esp. on nonfiction, so I am betting OW gave him the book as she is divorcing also! Gag!!! I continued to act nice & friendly but I am sure OW is pushing him to divorce me asap. Karen