Hi! I have been keeping up with your thread and think you are very brave for leaving that letter for her. I think you are really on the right path. There is no way I could handle my H going back with the OW again. I can put up with his crap right now because I know (at least 99%) that his affair is over. If I ever find out differently, I will be the same as you.

I am keeping you in prayer today.

By the way...I have always loved that Greenday song as well.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08