Pregnancy confirmed, but H is saying that he wants a paternity test.
I'm glad I appear composed because in reality I am soooo not. This is probably one of the darkest periods of my life and while H realizes some of the damage he has caused, he will not begin to fully appreciate it until later.
I guess they are talking again and H supposedly told her that they will have to remain in contact because of the situation but that they can't be "romantically" involved and she cried and said it would be too hard...WTF? She got tested last Thursday and says her results aren't back yet, I'm not sure I buy that, but I think my H KNOWS that he didn't get any of this stuff from me. He is just having a really hard time reconciling reality with his fantasy, ie: shes a good person, she gave him and STD...he can't seem to understand that good people don't sleep with other people's husbands/wives and good people don't cheat. I'm waiting patiently to get my results and then I will proceed from there.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option