Boy do I feel for you! That is why I know I shouldn't "push" my H, if he came back now I know it would be for the wrong reasons. It sucks b/c you have had him back, the Ds have had him back....grrr! Like I said, I feel for you...
I also agree w/Kalni. I don't think there would be some of the playfulness (spanking?!), and the dinner date, filling your gas tank, etc. if there weren't feelings there, too. Maybe he is PARTWAY back to you, but can't commit "all the way" yet. Maybe he thought he could live there while he found his way back. But you are right to want him to go if it is making you unhappy/upset.
