(((red)))
I read your update on my thread and came right over here. This is BS!! I agree with you. He needs to move out but DO NOT drop the rope yet. This is another phase you are going through. I know it's hard to accept the fact that he was there as "I love you and I need a place to stay" but I am not convienced he knows what he wants. He wouldn't have been able to be with you in the same house if he didn't feel anything for you. Maybe it's time for a new approach from you, let's think about it.

Calm down, we are doing this together...

K