I think we all realize that the fish took a pretty big hit, that roller coaster went from a high point to a low dip just like that! It's devastating. But, what fish is doing now is latching onto a pain killer in the form of another R (and with a friend of his W's!), a sure fire recipe for disaster. He's taking no time to reassess where he needs to be, no thought of how this will effect his child rearing R with his W or what this might do to his kids! Despite ALL the advice here, he's still going full steam ahead into a bad place. That said, I want fish to know that all those who are here kicking his rear will still be here for him when he needs to come back. Fish is human and, like the rest of us, will make mistakes...it's often the name of this game. I hope he just doesn't do too much damage in the mean time.


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White