Neecy, Don't want to rain on your parade, but did you ever consider that maybe he's just found another way to contact her?

When I first busted my WW on her cell calls to OM, she said he's just a friend and the calls/TM's stopped. Did their affair end? Nope, just went further underground.

If he knows you are looking at the cell bill for evidence of him contacting her he's just going to find another way.

Maybe I'm wrong. I'm not there and don't see your interactions with H. I just know from too many other people's experiences (mine included) that just because there are no cell calls/TM's doesn't mean he's still not contacting her.

Hope I didn't offend.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.