It takes time to heal from a divorce. Do not rush into another relationship. In the interim, someone may get hurt. Most importantly, why settle for a loser? Rebound relationships do NOT last. Drama and trauma is not what you need. You've been through enough already! You need to know what triggered the D so that you do not repeat the same mistake! Secondly, you need to forgive yourself, and your X.
If you have children, be sensitive to their needs. They are going through an adjustment too.
