Sorry to see you here but you have come to a good place, there is lots of support and wisdom here. It seems to me that your situation is far from over and done with. I recomend that you read the books Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy. You will find many ideas and lots of advice on how to work on things even after the divorce. Take good care of yourself, that's always a good place to start.
ALL
"Life may not be the party we hoped for... but while we are here we might as well dance!"
