Got home from work yesterday and the yellow pages (UK business phone book) was open on Family lawyers but wife out. When she came home and oldest not there I asked about it (wrong ? right ?) as I didn't think it had got that far yet and if she is doing that I need toplan a bit too to look after myself.She said she didn't get time to ring and we had a little chat which turned in her telling me, she gets house, I have to move out etc etc and I was just saying that she wouldn't, we would have to sell, they downsize and I get myself somewhere to rent as she couldn't afford the house without me. I don't understand where I stand if we were to D so any advice or recommeneded reading would be good. Anyways, I found myself riling so went to a mates house with littleun to get off my chest and then went home and did kids bedtime. I could tell W was looking for an argument so decided to go out and went to Casino to play poker which is my de stresser. Got home at 4am (driving) as won, but was nice just to get out the house. Very tired now and not sure what me going out will do, but will see tonight. Wife just seems to want to hurt me at the moment which I don't get. Is this a normal thing ? Is this that although W says they don't love you anymore, they do (even if 0.000001%) and are fighting themselves a bit to avoid getting sucked back in for fear of it returning to how it was ?
Will try and read others and post back today, but real busy at work. GL to all on here !!!!
