Stella, thanks for taking the time to print out the above post. It's REALLY helpful to read about the different phases of MLC. I do sense H wants to come back but for many reasons including the uncertainty/unhappiness with his job, he remains conflicted and does not want to take the chance of possibly hurting me again. At least I do know that he's been thinking about coming back which means that things can't be going that well with OW. I'll keep hanging in there.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz