I don't get this - the marriagebusters reference can stay but referral to the EDITED--ADVERTISING NOT ALLOWED [/i site is advertising? Oh, I guess because MB is perhaps in the referral base but the new [i]EDITED--ADVERTISING NOT ALLOWED .site isn't. That's too bad - I have gotten a lot more support there than I ever did here. Instead of just venting and spinning in circles I have actually been able to start focusing on my enabling behaviors and finding some great support, including being referred to many of the same resources listed here, and have seen some referrals to the SSM book - I own both books but am not sure I will invest in any more. I actually found both the SSM and SSW very eye opening, but I would rather have a more rounded focus on marriage and intimacy building. It is a GOOD thing to have our narrow focus shaken up a bit - without the thought provoking conversations I doubt that I would have been able to break free from my ineffective wheel spinning and started on the path to real growth - although I have a LONG way to go yet...... The more diverse the community and approaches to problems that are pretty much variations of a universal theme, the better chance that someone will find the key to break free and finally find the strength and knowledge to make effective change....

Last edited by sgctxok; 04/05/08 01:36 PM.
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