I can't leave it out because the kids don't know. My 9yo is a voracious reader and will pick up any book in his path.

I think he would be open to reading it. He's a good dad. I do think he wants wants best for the kids but is just in denial about the big picture. I don't want to be all in his face about it though. Well, actually, yes I do want to be in his face but I'm trying not to!

Thanks for the link.


Me BS 30
Him WH 32
Kids 9, 4 and 2
Together 12 years
DDAY#1 9/30/05 False reconciliation
DDAY #2 3/13/08 blindsided

Separating and heartbroken