I went and the OM wasn't there...My W was there and actually stayed most of the time(she was the first to leave but she did speak to me briefly). It wasn't too bad...I don't really know anyone that espouses to DB so it's tough to find someone that supports it. I try to tell friends about mlc and they listen but I don't think they understand...This board and you people have been my lifeline...and i have to say thank you to all of you...you're great people and I appreciate the time and understanding you all have given me. I think this experience has made me realize how fragile life is and how little control we really have over what happens to us. We can only control how we react. But being human, it is tough to remember that or control the emotions that can control us. I just hope it makes me a better person and allows me to be a better husband/father/friend. But I am also hoping I can find happiness again...I do find it once in a while with family and friends but I always fall back into missing my W....I will survive day to day!
H 42 W 37 M17 T20 years 3 daughters 11,11,14 seperated 11/26/07 EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8 Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon